Seriously? I don’t get it!

I don’t get it. Why is it so hard to understand that I don’t plan to meet anyone? I’m not here to hook up with dozens of men for sex…end of story. Yet I find I am constantly explaining that I’m not_ Neda:Do you think my friends should take off their shoes on gymnastics mats?(2 August [...]
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Flor:
Guy tells me that he doesn't want anything serious right now, but he acts serious. Should I just end things with him?
(2 August 2017)

Flor:
I'm thinking about just ending everything, but should I?
(2 August 2017)

Flor:
However in my head I'm thinking - why spend money to see someone who doesn't want anything more?
(2 August 2017)

Flor:
So then we discussed me going to his state next week and he suggested paying half of my flight ticket and have me over at his place to save money.
(2 August 2017)

Flor:
He wanted to come up to see me towards the end of this month however I told him I was too busy that week.
(2 August 2017)

Flor:
I've been through this before and it didn't end well - the guy was seeing another girl behind my back.
(2 August 2017)

Flor:
After he told me this the 1st time, I've been pretty distant because I'm just confused.
(2 August 2017)

Flor:
His first reason was because he's busy with work (which I know is true), then last week he admitted to me that the real reason is because he has trouble trusting due to his past relationships.
(2 August 2017)

Flor:
HOWEVER, we had a discussion a couple of weeks back and he admitted that he doesn't want anything serious at the moment however he has deep feelings for me.
(2 August 2017)

Flor:
I have also met his close friends and he told me he told a close friend about me and he even wants to meet up.
(2 August 2017)